Describe the problem before asking for a programme
Write the situation you want help with and the decisions that keep getting stuck. Include the time you can realistically give between sessions. A coach can then explain whether their approach fits the work, rather than selling a standard package without context.
Ask how they distinguish coaching from consulting, mentoring and specialist advice. If you need a pricing model or an operating procedure built for you, coaching alone may not deliver the output you expect.
Ask for a concrete explanation of the method
Ask what a session looks like, how goals are set and what happens when you do not complete an action. Request an illustrative agenda or blank worksheet. These can explain the approach without exposing another client’s confidential information.
Discuss relevant experience and check any credentials directly with the issuing organisation. Credentials and experience are inputs to your decision; neither guarantees a result. If references are offered, ask whether the person has agreed to be contacted.
- What kinds of owner decisions do you work on?
- How will you challenge assumptions without deciding for me?
- What preparation and follow-through will I need?
- How will we review progress and change direction?
Clarify confidentiality and conflicts
Ask what records will be kept, who can access them and whether sessions are recorded. If the company pays for an individual’s coaching, agree in advance what the company receives. Progress against agreed goals is different from a transcript of private conversations.
Discuss competing clients, referral fees and other relationships that could affect independence. A clear answer is more useful than a broad claim that everything is confidential. Ask for the relevant terms in writing.
Compare the full commitment
Compare the total fee, session frequency, duration, cancellation rules, between-session contact and any materials included. Ask what happens if either party wants to stop. Avoid comparing only a per-session price when the packages include different work.
If suitable, discuss a clearly scoped initial engagement with a review point. Make sure an introductory conversation does not quietly enrol you in a longer commitment. Get answers to ambiguous terms before paying.
Notice promises that evidence cannot support
Guaranteed revenue, pressure to sign immediately or unwillingness to explain the method are reasons to pause. A coach should be able to discuss limitations and refer you elsewhere when the work is outside their competence.
After speaking to providers, write down the reasons for your choice: fit with the problem, clarity of approach, your ability to be candid and acceptable terms. You should understand what you are buying and what remains your responsibility.
Choose the person and structure that fit your actual decisions. Ask for a clear method, boundaries, review point and written agreement.
